Private coaching for men · Chicago

Don't face the divorce of your life on your own.

The pre-divorce dead zone is the hardest stretch no one warned you about — your footing, your kids, your future all in question. You don't need sympathy. You need a strategy and a corner man who's walked it before.

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The hardest time

The stretch when you can't sleep — because you don't know if you'll lose the house, or time with your kids.

You're reacting, not deciding.

Every conversation feels like a trap, and you're always a step behind.

Advice comes from everywhere — and nowhere.

Friends, lawyers, the internet. None of it is a plan built for you.

You're carrying it alone.

The people close to you are too close to see it clearly.

The clock is running.

The choices you make now shape the next ten years of your life.

The Game Ready System

Four moves that put you back in control.

Prepare for your divorce like a pro athlete training for game day. Not a pep talk — a sequence that gets your mind, body and spirit game ready, so you come out the other side quickly and economically, with all your key players taken care of.

Marcin Lapczynski getting game ready
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PersevereBuild Mindset

Eye on the prize. Steady your head so the pressure stops making your decisions for you.

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TeamDon't Go Solo

Gather the right strategists and supporters. You stop carrying the weight alone.

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PrepareGet In Shape

Set a schedule, get guidance, and walk in ready — not reacting on the back foot.

04
DevelopStrategy To Win

Keep your goal on target and build the plan that protects what actually matters.

Marcin Lapczynski — divorce coach, Chicago
Marcin Lapczynski · Chicago
Your corner man

I'm Marcin. I coach men through the fight of their lives.

“For me, the dead zone was filled with anger, self-loathing and hopelessness. Worse — I thought I was alone.”

I've walked through it myself. Not only can you make it out — you can win, without you or your spouse needing to lose. Awakening Coaching exists for one reason: so no man has to walk through divorce without a strategy and someone in his corner. I work with men one-on-one — privately, directly, and without judgment — to turn panic into a plan.

— Coach Marcin
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Men who stopped going it alone.

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One private conversation. No cost. No pressure.

Tell me where you are. I'll show you what a plan could look like. If it's a fit, we keep going — if not, you walk away with clarity you didn't have this morning.

— Free 30-minute 1-on-1 call — Completely confidential — Zero obligation to continue

“Win the divorce game — without either of you losing.”The Awakening Coaching promise

a.
Call or text

Reach Marcin directly — no gatekeepers, no forms.

b.
Talk it through

30 minutes, one-on-one. Where you are, what's at stake.

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Leave with a plan

Clear next moves — whether we work together or not.

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